Dear Friends,
We welcome you to our website, which is a resource for Catholics facing end-of-life issues. The statements above are important teachings from our late Pope, His Holiness John Paul II, which both summarize our belief in the sanctity of human life and acknowledge modern culture's push towards death.
We chose the name Embracing Our Dying for our website because we know that if those who are dying are embraced by their family and their community, they will not seek death, but will live their last days well, and then accept death when it comes.
As recently as 50 years ago, people expected their doctors to expend every effort to preserve life. Since then, with the advent of ventilators, dialysis, tube feeding, transplants, exotic antibiotics and intensive care units, efforts by healthcare professionals may be prolonging the dying process rather than preserving life. Most people can tell a sad story about a friend or a loved one whose death was fear-filled, painful and lonely.
Our website, which has a uniquely Catholic perspective, offers a better way for individuals, families and friends to approach end-of-life issues. We present an overview of Catholic moral theology regarding death and dying-including a number of Church documents. We include information on current medical and hospital practices-including the use of pain medication. We put forward facts about California law concerning living wills and advance directives-including actual forms and instructions. We offer suggestions for finding a hospice and connecting with a Catholic parish. And finally, we have an "answer page" which contains frequently asked questions (FAQs) about end-of-life issues.
We hope that this website will serve you and yours well as you deal with end-of-life issues.
Very sincerely yours,
Most Reverend Gerald Wilkerson
Auxiliary Bishop of Los Angeles, San Fernando Region
Embracing Our Dying Project Liaison